20 November, 2008

the changing tides of being an authority figure

One of my major struggles as a teacher has been, and continues to be reconciling my thoughts on being an authority figure in the classroom.

Today, I realized how much these thoughts have changed to some degree

I offer a list chronicling the details:

  • Advisory: two students surreptitiously eating sunflower seeds. Immediate detention to both of them which they took with good grace surprisingly
  • Advisory (again): students passing/reading notes while I taught a somewhat dry lesson on effective questioning. Took notebook away, and had a firm discussion in the hallway with one the perpetrators. Gave her time to cool off, and then moved her seat to a new spot
  • Gave two detentions as an advisor to two other students: lateness, and chewing gum in class
  • Group E: started the day off with a firm talk about expectations, and used my clipboard to shut down shouting out at the beginning of class (something they absolutely love doing)
  • My new statement "Not everything in your brain has to come out of your mouth. Learn to control that"
  • Group F: threatening to take away a math dance I had created if they did not control themselves, which they immediately did.
  • Group F: acting foolish at the end of the period (students were putting up chairs, talking, etc, while I was trying to tell them the hw assignment). Finally, I used one of my new trick moves, which is simply 'be quiet for a minute'. someone of course said something, so my response was 'now it's two minutes'. We got to five minutes before they realized I was serious.

From all this, I am realizing that I am no longer afraid to be 'the reluctant disciplinarian'. I have my moments of weakness, ineffectual and mixed signals, etc. but I am learning nonetheless, and learning when to put my foot down.

This is good....(I think) I hope it continues....

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